5 Expert Pieces of Advice from Divorce Mediation Experts

There are a large number of marriages that are on the edge of a divorce. Now this is not a necessary option. All those little things that are really important are enough to keep a couple together. When these little things are ignored, they start to heap in discontentment and disaffection and are showcased wishing to immediately run away from all of it.

Here are 5 Expert Pieces of Advice from Divorce Mediation Experts. Applying these tips consistently, you are definitely going to save that marriage. Guys, these are the things you need to know.

1.    Stimulate Affection

Women love to be picked, touched and caressed. Do this in excess and you will always be in her thoughts. Even if you are apart, or at work, send her text messages saying “I love you".

The fact that you are thinking of her tells that she means so much. Little thoughtful gifts that show affection and care may be all she needs to fall in love with you all over again.

2.    Pretend to Listen

Men sometimes have a hard time paying attention to everything a woman is saying (and it can be quite a lot!). Even if your ears or your attention antennae is picking up and making sense of only 60% of the discussion, look into her eyes and nod your head. She appreciates the fact that you are listening, even if you are not. If later, you were to have done something based on the part of the discussion you did not get, respectfully apologize that you forgot.

C’mon, every human being forgets sometimes! Women don’t like being asked to repeat what they’ve said, but if you didn’t get something clearly, it’s always better to ask. Tell her it’s because you don’t want to make a mistake; because you want to do what will make her happy.

3.    Observe Body Language

You came back from work and you meet your spouse on the couch in front of the TV, looking sad. She greets you with a weak smile and in a low tone of voice. Don’t for a moment imagine she’s down with the flu. The only flu she may have is that you have not spoken with her the whole day or that she’s tired from doing so much house work, or exhausted from taking care of the kids.

When you notice she looks upset, unhappy or tired, don’t invalidate her feelings. She has a right to them. Instead, try to make her feel better: hug her, hold her hands, and offer to take her out. A change of environment for ten minutes, a walk and the breath of outside air may just be the trick.

4.    Sex is it!

Don’t let anyone fool you. As important as food is to the body the desire to sleep or do Number 2, so is the desire for sex. By now we know even medically that the super-machismo of men in the drive for sex is not exclusive. Women need sex; women love sex. If your wife does not talk much and is often gloomy, you may be surprised to know that she is not having enough sex.

5.     Make that money!!!

Get a job! There’s no other way to put this. You need money! No matter how much she loves you, you need money to sustain that love. All women love to look good. She’s got to do her hair and sew or buy clothes, get her nails done, wear shoes, buy sanitary pads and do a million other things that only women do. Live with it! Women were created that way. You may need only N 300 or $2 for a haircut, but she’ll need N 10,000 to get her hair done. Always better to have a job, a car if possible, before you get hooked.

If you still feel that you need help, get in touch with a financial and mediation expert today itself.